Just get over It. Well, fuck you Lady.

I just love when people tell me to “get over it”. I’m not on the mood to be tested today. People are cruel and insensitive, the best will tell you they are, the worst make you feel like you are the biggest crying piece of insecurity you could be. I don’t feel insecure, but it’s just the way people look at someone going through something difficult. Like it’s your fault they think you should get over it. Your pain is your pain, they can’t imagine it unless they’ve known it themselves. Those are the people that I want to pour hot coffee on. Then there are the people I respect that say, “you know, I’m not a sympathetic person, so I can’t help you with the emotions part.” honesty, it’s honesty. I won’t get over it, it feels wrong to even consider it.